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Making up can be one of the best things to happen in your life, or the worst. You must first take a few steps in order to make sure everything is in perfect conditions to make up with someone, or to get them back to you. It is important that you think long and hard about what you are trying to do and how you will do it. All the pain that comes after a break up or a sour relationship may just heal with time, but it may never heal unless you make peace with that person. Making peace can help improve your life but there are somethings to keep in mind before you attempt this.

Regardless of how things used to be between you two you need to take a few steps back and regard everything with a 3rd perspective eye and keep things in that perspective. Allowing emotion to overtake you will only cause more problems. So keep these following things in mind.

1. Never become desperate or seek out the person because you feel you have no one else to go to. That is NOT true, there are always people in your life who will be there for you, you just aren’t looking hard enough for them. If you rush back you may look pathetic and then you will appear pathetic and that is not the way you want to look to that person who honestly wants you to be a better person.

2. In order to get your life together you have to first find peace. Peace with who you are, who you want to be, and your limitations in life. We all won’t be rock stars and famous celebrities, honestly that is OKAY. Once you accept that, you can be happier with what you have. Set a goal for yourself, think of ways to improve who you are and the current life you live. Or else you are living for nothing, not changing from day to day.

3. Accept the fact that it may not work out. This is why step 1 and 2 are so important, if it comes down to it and your past friend or lover refuses to have anything to do with you, you must accept this and move on. It makes it a lot easier to accept this when your life is already in order and you do not NEED this person in your life to be happy, it would simply improve an already content and fulfilled existence.

4. Be careful, be cautious in your approach. Figure out what exactly made things wrong and do your best to either fix that problem, or come up with a way to explain it to the other person as to why it happened and why it will never happen again. You want things to work, then you need to prove it to the other person and to yourself that they will work.

5. Make sure that YOU yourself are ready. Are you trying to get back together with someone who made your life miserable but you can’t live without them? Maybe its better to wait and find someone else to distract you before you rashly run back into the other persons arms.